You see, the problem I deal with as a large incredibly sexy woman is that my confidence often deflects this shame. If I even smell this lack of self-confidence, I will (and have) reject their advances.

The consequence of those rejections? I have been hounded, stalked, insulted and even anonymously messaged by these men for daring reject them. And I am not the only ‘large’ woman who has dealt with these insults — often from very attractive and entitled men, I might add.

How dare a large, confident woman reject a man’s courage to overcome his fear of asking her out or bedding her? I mean, what right do I, a promiscuous large woman, dare turn him down? Its not like I could EVER score better.

This is a common, disturbing thread that I see and it only gets worse as I’ve matured.