How to never get frustrated
Don’t expect, and there will be no frustration. Frustration is just a shadow which follows expectation.
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A quick story:
A few years ago, When I was 16-17 years of age, I got habitual to getting frustrated. I went through a ton of drama, miseries and emotional breakdowns. That time all I had wanted was a shoulder to lean on, and that was my "expectation mindset" that I slapped on the face of every human being I came in contact with.
I was expecting "certain feelings" from OTHERS to feel good about myself.
I expected love, warmth, comfort and nourishment and guess what? It always backfired.
When people sense that you want something from them - they back off. They never give.
The statement - Don’t expect, and there will be no frustration.
Frustration is just a shadow which follows expectation.
Is a universal law!
When I realised this, I was never frustrated again and this is also true with events and circumstances in my life.
NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING.
If you keep expectations be ready to get frustrated and disappointed.
Share with me if you have experienced such a phenomenon in life. I'll be happy to listen to it.
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