Is This Weaponized Incompetence, Or Is My Husband Just Human?

Amber Wardell, Ph.D
6 min readJan 10, 2024

Don’t worry, fellow wives. I’m not about to try to discredit weaponized incompetence.

Weaponized incompetence is real. It is neglectful. I’d argue that it’s abusive.

Just so we’re clear on my stance before we begin.

Weaponized incompetence refers to the intentional use or manipulation of incompetence or lack…

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