These two words will literally save lots of time, and heartache. Almost every life event moves “through” our lives. Good or bad (which is just a way for us to categorize the event), we move through it to the next place. it’s like passing through a series of rooms without doors (but door ways), each room has it’s purpose, and it takes as long as it takes to move through each room — but once through, you’re done.
I has taken me decades of “experiences” to understand that simple concept. And when I look back, I understand how I chose to spend too much time in one room or another, unwilling to leave and go to the next room.