You Are Entitled For Nothing

Some days pass on and you find messages from GOD and lessons popping around you to teach you something.
Actually I realized those messages pop up every day but it’s about who is paying attention and who is not.
I thought of sharing some of them every now and then in case it could inspire anyone or help them in their journey as it did with mine guided by a Loving GOD:) under #ilearn theme.
Those past couple of months i learnt a core lesson.
In my endless quest for peace of mind, i realized why it was endless and never attained. It was so because it was always connected with external factors, which are usually out of my control especially when it involved people.
I learnt that the price I need to pay for my peace of mind and actually freedom and rest of the soul is to plant in myself the notion that none of us is entitled for anything. The universe never promised us anything….It never promised us wealth, happiness, freedom….etc.
On the contrary, there were no promises. Whatever you want you must EARN…. and even this is not promised. Indeed, you can work hard and still never earn what you wanted simply because it wasn’t yours from the beginning.
Did you ever hear anyone promising you that whatever you wish for will be yours?! If you did, come rest your case for us, please😃
Today I learnt that my freedom and peace of mind will lie in realizing that no one is responsible to make me happy; be it a partner, sibling, parents, or friends.
Today i won’t wait for anyone to save me…
Today I won’t hold anyone responsible for fixing my problems…
Today I’ll make peace with people not staying by my side at all times, not because they are bad, or unfaithful, or anything. But because at the end it’s their choice.
And the beauty about this is that it’s equally my choice as well:)
Today I’ll mute the voice of those statements:
“She should have helped me solve this issue”
“He should have called when I felt down”
“They shouldn’t have went out and left me alone even if I refused to go out with them” ….
I’ll do this for myself before others. For myself , to regain my happiness and peace and for others, to start raising my tolerance levels for them and always giving them the benefit of the doubt:)
Today, please join me and fly your wings, do what will make you happy, and place no expectations on others and you’ll experience a kind of freedom and peace you never know existed.
