An irony of life
There is always at least someone, or more than one person who thinks for you, who wishes for you. Wishes good for you. Growth and happiness. Strangely though, what they wish for you is probably not what you wish for yourself.
There are on the other hand, people, who you wish would think for you and wish for you but you probably are not even on their minds ever, except when you are in front of them or when they need something from you.