Yes I have. It says I’ve dated that kind of guy, NOT been engaged to, married, nor gone into business with such a person. That’s the purpose of the dating process — to see what lies behind all those pretty masks. We hold these truths to be self-evident, my friend… that all ‘soft boys’ are created equal. They are endowed with certain rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of zapping others of their happiness.