Ana Blossom
Sep 8, 2018 · 1 min read

More disgusting victim blaming. This is the definition of victim blaming. Why aren’t you telling rapist Aziz Ansari to just keep his goddamn hands to himself? I can go through life without sexually assaulting people because I don’t touch them unless they explicitly say “Yes I want you to touch me.”

If you find that difficult then you need help. Not victims.

Stop making excuses for crimes. Stop causing rape victims more suffering by publishing these immoral stories calling victims weak and passive.

It’s disgusting.

Aziz Ansari didn’t care about her consent. Because he doesn’t want to stop. He didn’t care what she wanted. Rapists are selfish egomaniacs. They want selfish pleasure.

Has it ever occurred to you that maybe victims know the danger they are in? That maybe they can tell that saying no will have zero effect? Because rapists like Aziz Ansari DON’T FUCKING CARE ABOUT OUR CONSENT.

Ana Blossom

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Survivor struggling with PTSD.

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