you should ask yourself two big questions.
We’ve lost sight of the most important rule in debating science
Ethan Siegel

I would prepend another question, such as “what do you mean by Big Bang/evolution/chemicals/climate change”. A lot of the problem is that these buzz words are loaded and mean different things to different people, no less than the “sovereignty of God” means completely different things to the Calvinist and the Armenian (but where the nuance is lost on the casual observer).