
He said: “If I guarantee that you’ll be successful, no matter your decision, which option will you pick?” My immediate answer was “I would stay in the US.” That was it. It’s a clear message “Don’t make decisions out of insecurity”. Thinking about things in an optimistic way has always helped me since. Even if it turns out the decision leads to a tough situation, it feels good knowing the choice was made with confidence instead of insecurity.