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Apr 21

Three Transformational Questions for Iconic Decision-making

I have some questions for you first: How much time do you spend in making miniscule decisions? How much energy do you spend in debating with yourself? Do I? Don’t I? Do I have to? On and on… …no wonder so many find themselves taking massive amounts of action …

Personal Development

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Three Transformational Questions for Iconic Decision-making
Three Transformational Questions for Iconic Decision-making

Dec 2, 2019

That which you fear hold the key to your desires.

My mission to transform your relationship with fear continues. Modern day society has managed to distort the original meaning and intent of so many powerful words and concepts, in the process enslaving the masses within their own minds filled with horror to the point of paralysis. Believing that whichever way they turn, they’re basically fucked. And…

Mindset

5 min read

That which you fear hold the key to your desires.
That which you fear hold the key to your desires.

Nov 19, 2019

You are the creator of your relationships.

Depending on where you find yourself on your journey, this piece is going to feel anything from a punch in the nose to me french-kissing your soul… Wherever you find yourself on this scale, is perfect. I’m calling for a revolution of free-thinking Alphas who understand that for them to…

Relationships

5 min read

You are the creator of your relationships.
You are the creator of your relationships.

Oct 27, 2019

We are who we choose to be.

As the garage door slowly rolls up the gust of wind creates a moment of chaos around me. Fuck, the weather app screwed up again. The prediction said 11 am. It’s now 7 am and already nature is blowing like a baby hurricane. Which means, it’s going to be one helluva…

Life Lessons

5 min read

We are who we choose to be.
We are who we choose to be.

Oct 24, 2019

The ripple effect of thoughts gone by.

Is it just me? Surely not! I mean, I know we’re supposed to say that we have all our shit sorted and that we are saints in disguise, and I do look at those who go through life seemingly unphased by anything and fleetingly think ‘oh how nice for them’. But I don’t think I came to this life…

Life Lessons

5 min read

The ripple effect of thoughts gone by.
The ripple effect of thoughts gone by.

Oct 22, 2019

Creating your Toolbox of Thrive

As I lightly puke into my mouth the thought crosses my mind -spit or swallow- -irrelevant- the only thing that matters the ONLY thing that actually matters is that I finish what I started. Finish the interval. Finish the session. Rain-splattered glasses making every turn in the road an act…

Life Lessons

5 min read

Creating your Toolbox of Thrive
Creating your Toolbox of Thrive

Jul 8, 2019

When they tell you to be your real self.

People are simply delicious… I love how they always presume to know what’s good for me. What will make me happy. What will make me successful. I particularly delight in people telling me who I really am. What I really want to say. How I really want to say it. …

Life

5 min read

When they tell you to be your real self.
When they tell you to be your real self.

Jul 3, 2019

Right now, is as free as you’re going to get…

Sit up. Pay attention. Shit is about to go down on a g-string. Home truth Lover. As free as you’re feeling right now, in this breath, is as free as you’ll ever get… Unless you stop your shit, thinking your freedom lies on the other side of the fence. Whaaaaaat??? That’s right Dumpling. Nobody and nothing is imprisoning you. There’s no financial restraints holding you hostage. No…

Life Lessons

5 min read

Right now, is as free as you’re going to get…
Right now, is as free as you’re going to get…

Jul 1, 2019

It’s time to liberate your sweet self from your perceived weakness.

How can I be so insensitive? So inconsiderate? So cold? Easy. I’m sick and tired of people being treated as though they are powerless, weak, in need of saving, resulting in a victimised mindset, depression, overwhelm, anxiety, and suicide. Whatever the fuck. I refuse to feed the little bitch in…

Life

4 min read

It’s time to liberate your sweet self from your perceived weakness.
It’s time to liberate your sweet self from your perceived weakness.

Jun 25, 2019

Are you ready to call bullshit and join a thrive evolution?

I’m instigating a thrive-evolution. For Alpha Females ready to call bullshit. Women who are ready to question the system, the roles we’ve been so neatly placed into, the behaviour that we’ve been saddled with, by anal men and insecure women who simply can’t handle our unbridled enjoyment of life. Women who have no desire…

Life Lessons

5 min read

Are you ready to call bullshit and join a thrive evolution?
Are you ready to call bullshit and join a thrive evolution?
Anel Bester

Anel Bester

Transformational Expert, Fear Alchemist, Author

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