Sometimes I don’t mind being noticed on the street, but most of the time I strive to be invisible.

and ps it’s not because I expect the worst of dudes that makes me scared of dudes. I’m just erring on the side of caution, because I’ve been told a million times if you get unwanted attention or are ASSAULTED you someone were partly responsible- even though it’s always the rapist’s lack of self control, no part of me wants to project a sexually available vibe.