
The bottomline is this: Your partner is going to have to love you. The real you. The covered in cheetos in your bed you, the you at your proudest moment of your life, the you that you know is you. There’s no point in making them fall in love with some other version of yourself, your core will come out eventually. If you’re weird, be weird! If you’re a goofball, be a goofball. I know how frustrating it can be to be denied, but you have to know there’s someone out there that …