Rim Reling
Sep 2, 2018 · 2 min read

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I moved in with my girlfriend, our sex life has died. It is very frustrating.

We are both 24 and have been together for two years.

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Since my girlfriend and I moved in together our sex life has died[/caption]

We started renting a house six months ago. Until then we only met at weekends but we had sex every time.

Now the rare sex we have is just me pleasing her without intercourse.

She says sex is painful and she is tired after working long hours.

I know she works hard but it’s the same even if we go away for the weekend — just me pleasuring her, then we call it a night.

Have you got any ideas?

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DEIDRE SAYS: The long hours are real but a bit of a smokescreen perhaps.

Did you ask her why having sex hurts?

Has it always been painful for her?

You need to be talking about this so you know how to please her and how to make sure she is ready and fully aroused.

My e-leaflet on Painful Sex can help.


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