Interesting article and responses.

Actually I feel it has a lot to do with how much you are at ease with yourself and who you are. If someone’s attention bothers you, just move away. Surround yourself with people you can relate with. I think there is in this article unnecessary emphasis on the sexual element of attraction. Some of the closest people of both sexes that I have, are able to relate with me in a totally platonic way.

Hope I am making sense.