To be interesting, be interested .. !

Aniqa Rafiq
Jul 28, 2017 · 1 min read

Everybody expects love and care from others . when we start conversation with someone we do questions to know about other persons’ interest, personality, likes and dislikes . If we show interest in them they will definitely show their interest back to us. I can give you a live example as I called my cousin to whom I rarely talk. I started questioning her as ,I accepted the challenge, asking about her routine, study etc . And she started asking from me and showing interest in me . Yes we can make friends by becoming interested in other people . If we’re not showing any kind of interest or affection then it will not be successful conversation.

After reading the chapter one of ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ I have come to know that being interested is better than being interesting. If we want to make friends let’s put ourselves out to do things for other people. Like Thurston, every time he said to himself before performing in front everyone: ‘ I’m grateful because these come to see me. I’m going to give them the very best I possibly can’

At the end I will say that we have to show love, affection and give our best while doing conversation with a stranger or anyone we know him/her. Human beings can’t live alone and spend his whole life by sitting aside not taking to anyone.

    Aniqa Rafiq

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