In the end, you need to decide who you want to be. What identity you’re striving for. Someone who enjoys a balanced life. Someone who finds time to connect with their kids every day. Or someone who runs marathons. You get to choose. No one else. And then set your sights on moving toward that identity. Closer to the person you want to be, each day. If the output of your day, your choices, your life, is moving you closer to where you want to be, you’re productive.