This post is very necessary, thanks for laying out your well thought out points. I struggle with this as a POC but one of privilege as an Asian American. I am sharing with my mostly white woman’s group who have latched onto SURJ. We will be discussing this and digesting with the goal of more discomfort and deeper understanding of the work ahead. It’s a long haul, we don’t want to be tokens and we want to strategize. Your point about men gathering to discuss dismantling the patriarchy was right on and made your point clearly. The very thought agitated me in a good way.