Bio-Intelligent Sex: the First & Last Frontier
By being congruent with our true sexual nature, we return to harmony and balance. In short: the painfully bottomless thirst for consumer products is abated by good sex and a healthy creative life (same thing).
Healthy sexuality may just be the last thing regarded as important and worth investing in compared to developing more drugs, weapons, and tech trinkets which inadvertently keeps our society pedaling itself straight toward a bereft and nebulous purgatory. What’s valued in the business world are building the next generation of AI products and services (it looks oh so cool), dumping billions into emerging bio-tech empires (more cool), signing off on extremely violent films, games, and toys (even more military-bro-frat-boy coolness there).
But I’m not giving up on my vision. I don’t care if I’m laughed at or dismissed. I know there isn’t a single person on this planet who wants to live in a loveless world.
I woke up this morning with the clarity that one of my main missions is to help this world heal from its sexual trauma and prevent more trauma from happening by inspiring a healthier culture around sex — the root of EVERYTHING we consider to be life-affirming, life-giving, and creatively human.
Have you taken notice of the following lately: sharply decreasing fertility in the developed world…thousands of new robotics and dolls and every manner of object and screen separating people from touch and connection…compounding DISTRACTION from what’s real…increased unemployment from machines replacing people’s jobs…massively increasing drug use and overdose in the US…a sharp rise in suicide…growing rates of depression and anxiety…a widespread trend away from coupling and marriage and toward isolated individuality. I don’t say all this to be a doom and gloom gal but to simply note by way of contrast just how much of a BALM and ANTIDOTE we have at our disposal for all these painful imbalances.
Embodiment is not a temporary state and is more than a philosophy: it is a way of life, a remembrance of who and what we are. While the very definition of human is changing thanks to a relentless (and inexplicable) drive on the part of a number of STEM visionaries, there are quite a few ways to claim our humanity in its fullness that we as a civilization have yet to master. Instead of moving further and further away from our fullness, we can choose to move further IN, deeper toward our essence. We can come back to our senses. Our future does not have to look like a zombie apocalypse.

Absolutely no one wants to live in a loveless, disconnected, alienated, dislocated, radically disembodied, mechanized world. We have to fight the overload of DISTRACTION being put upon our nervous systems and remain SENSITIVE (the opposite of being distracted). How do we do that? Thankfully there are many many ways to remain in touch, sensitize ourselves, enrich our capacity for connection, intimacy, and love. It is not too late.
I often mention one poignant thing that Osho, the 20th Century Indian philosopher said about sex: if you want to manipulate and control a mass society, you need to cut them at the root — essentially destroy their sexuality as a child. We are seeing this worldwide — we have for some time. 1 in 4 girls in the US, 1 in 5 boys is sexually abused. We have a gigantic sex slavery network worldwide to contend with. Shame and guilt are used as religious tools to keep people in line. Rape is still used a war tactic in many countries, and sexual harassment in the workplace is far from a distant memory.
WHY? WHAT IS SEX REALLY?
Sex is the Grand Connector, the embodied echo of our bio-intelligent origins, the gateway to spiritual meaning and a deeply beautiful act of homecoming. That is my personal vision (and experience) of sex as a human being. How it is distorted and used for on this planet serves an insidious agenda of suppressing the human capacity for embodied genius, for wisdom and compassion, empathy, sovereignty, and spiritual solvency.

On the religious/metaphysical front: you cannot claim to be a wise “spiritual” being whilst rejecting and hating your body, your sexual organs, for this is rejecting how you got here — this is hating and denying your very creative life force. I truly believe there is a vested interest in keeping people out of their bodies and sexual sovereignty because they are easier to control and be herded into a consumer mold. Ever notice how the more fulfilled and nourished emotionally and spiritually people are, the more balanced they are in relation to material wants and needs? By being congruent with our nature, we also return to harmony and balance. In short: the painfully bottomless thirst for consumer products is abated by good sex and a healthy creative life (same thing).
Yet all major forces at play on this earth right now inculcate just the opposite. Can you see it? Are you aware? How are you actively cultivating a fully connected, sexually sovereign life? There are millions of mental hydras everywhere now, trying to claim bits of your attention, latching on and sucking you dry of your will, your creative animus. Time to stop that.
The Return to the Body is one of the greatest tasks of our time. In defiance of all religious agendas. In contrast to mass political agendas. Flowing in the opposite direction to most economic and business agendas. It is the ultimate declaration of independence from all inhumane & post-human agendas.
Claim your body and you are claiming yourself. INhabit your body and you have a real stake in life. Reject the numerous subtle influences keeping you from feeling, creating, connecting, and truly acting.
Another extremely important way to combat the incessant DISTRACTION and overload of the nervous system: GET INTO NATURE.
Ever notice how every single dystopian movie shows the earth as a barren, tree-less wasteland? But have you ever noticed that the 1% prefer to live in beautiful homes with gardens? What — you mean they don’t prefer to live in a wasteland? You mean, at the end of the day, no one wants to live in a vast metallic civilization with no green left?

Who will take up the challenge!!? Who will choose something different? Who will start to wake up and realize what our sexuality really is, really means?
We still have time to remember who we are. Time to connect with our Nature. Touch her. Breathe her. Spend time out of the city. It is not just a nice thing to do; it is essential. When we are in nature, our body can relax the way it is meant to. We are symbiotic beings. We are designed for lush, green vistas, to gaze out over horizons, to feel wind on our faces, and yes, to occasionally get pricked by an annoying insect. But that is a small price to pay for being embraced in the totality of our original home. And if there are insects at least we know the ground is still alive. Be wary of fields silent of crickets and birds. Be aware of any force that seeks to negate or neutralize your sexual power. Time to come home.

