PinnedPublished inFanfareThe Forgotten Queerness of Pump Up the VolumeBefore I had language for who I was, I had this movie — and a boy with a mic screaming into the dark.3d ago63d ago6
PinnedPublished inInvisible IllnessSexual Trauma Didn’t Just Steal My Safety — It Rewired My BrainIt wasn’t dramatic. He just held the door open. That’s it. That’s all it took.4d ago434d ago43
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenQueer Hustle: 25 Years of Online Selling, Capitalism, and Staying AfloatFor queer sellers, survival means knowing when to pivot — and when to get out.May 13May 13
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenHow Ace Ventura Mocked a Trans Woman: Lois Einhorn Deserved BetterI Denied Lois Einhorn’s Humanity — And I Can’t Ignore Her Cry Any LongerMar 2022Mar 2022
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenThe Joke Was on Them: How Cis Filmmakers Exposed Their Own IgnoranceIn Ace Ventura and Silence of the Lambs, cis discomfort wore the costume and wrote the script.Apr 228Apr 228
Published inFourth Wave“The Breakfast Club” and the Kids Who Got to Stay BrokenWhat looked like catharsis was really five kids learning how to conform2d ago12d ago1
Published inThe RiffThe Ghost We Built: Rethinking the Michael Jackson NarrativeWhen the world couldn’t own him, it turned him into a ghost — and called it justice.6d ago6d ago
Published inThe HavenThe Mothers We Didn’t Know We Were: A Dog, a Puzzle, and a Quiet Mother’s DayOn Johnny Carson, invisible labor, and the three moms under one roof — only one of whom has fur.6d ago16d ago1
Published inThe Bigger PictureI Don’t Want to Be Understood — Just UninterruptedSometimes being understood means being reshaped. I’m done letting others round off my edges.6d ago6d ago
Published inThe RiffTeardrop Reminds Me I’m Still Brilliant — Even When I ForgetA song of grief, genius, and the fragile brilliance we forget we carry.May 8May 8