Does Being With a Trans Woman Make Me Gay or Straight?

Misconceptions exist not only about bisexual females but also trans woman. And the most common is am I gay if I am with a trans woman?

Well, there’s only one answer to this question. Before we look at it, first let’s understand what a transgender is, so that there is no confusion about this word.

Transgender is someone whose gender is different from the one they were assigned at birth. Transgender individuals may identify themselves as female or male. They may also feel that neither of the two descriptions fit them.

Now, let’s come to transgender women. A trans woman is someone who was born a male but identify her as a woman. Some, but not all, transgender women also opt for a medical transition.

So, what a transgender women really is — a woman or man?

Well, your genitals are only a small part of your body. Similarly, your body is a minuscule part of your overall being. And that’s why a trans woman is a woman.

Your genitals do not define you. How you feel is the most important thing. A trans woman feels she is a woman and so she is one. That’s the truth; there’s nothing more to it.

Coming back to the question, the answer is right there in front of you. How can dating a woman (remember, trans woman is much a woman as any woman born that way) turn you into gay?

In short, dating a trans woman doesn’t make you gay. You are straight, so stop worrying yourself to death about it. And there’s no need for you to give up the pleasure of the company of your partner on account of her being a transgender.

Come to think about it, when you are out on a date with a woman, how many times you think about her genitals? When you cannot even see her genitals, how can they affect the way you enjoy her company? And when you do see them, can’t you realize that her genitals are just a small part of her and that there’s a lot more to her than her genitals and that there are many attributes of her that you can be more attracted to than her genitals (all this is assuming, your transgender girlfriend still has a penis)?

And if your partner has had a medical transition and you enjoy sex with her, just why you should worry about her previously having a penis instead of a vagina? Beats the mind, doesn’t it!

So, whichever way you look at it, you can come to only one conclusion. Trans woman is a woman and dating her is no different than dating a woman who was born with feminine genitals.

If you are interested in women looking for couples, you can use the Internet to your advantage. There are many niche dating sites than have a high subscription of tans women and you are sure to meet someone special online. Those interested in bisexual women dating sites can try out bi sites where there are many bi females online.

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