Anne Shark
Mar 3 · 1 min read

Thanks for sharing your experience. Something I’ve found helpful for getting multiple partners to be more comfortable around each other is to go out to some event together (and if it’s poly-themed, all the better ). There’s not as much pressure to focus on getting to know each other if there’s some other reason for being there, but it’ll happen naturally.

One thing that’s certainly true about polyamory is that it creates a constantly-changing dynamic.

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Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet and over-thinker.

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