I REALLY wish this was my problem. I’m self aware to the point of being self destructive. I analyze every conversation, constantly asking whether I might have unintentionally offended someone or let my frustration show. Painfully aware of every flaw, I had zero confidence for most of my life. Ironically, self awareness has also been the solution and somehow over the past few years I finally learned to live with myself, even like myself. (Still working on the “love” part — maybe someday. Sounds like I need your book!