Sometimes Tinder feels more like a video game I am trying to clock, but I am always fascinated by the way people choose to present themselves. It seems to tie in to the concept of the gaze; in that women have been working on their self-presentation all their lives.
And then, there are the men. While…

When I was still coming out of my teens in the early 2000s, I had a face and body that were considered, well, adequate, for modelling purposes. Of course, I was too short, at 5’6” for professional work, and too curvy, as a size 10, but I scraped by for photographic projects, and the…