There’s this lack of understanding of the human condition common in our day, that if we could solve our problems we’d be happier. Contented. Our lives, however they are, comprises also of our discontents. Life is also about what’s wrong — some have argued primarily; without this the equation is only half complete. This poverty leads to a proliferation of reactive advocacy, BLM, Feminism* etc.
Psychoanalysis has demonstrated that there are few things as unsettling as our dreams coming true. We tend in life to our tomatoes as well as our peppers, nursing our grievances and our joys back to life. Not all who are in bondage seek freedom, our nightmares are as fertile as our imaginations!