Relationships

Went to a Haus Khas yesterday. It’s a place full of ‘cool’ people, not exactly the good crowd, but yeah the ones who love eating at places where you can’t have a decent conversation because of the fucking loud music. It’s a good place to dance, but I really can’t go there again and again.

Not that kind of a person.

And the thing I noticed yesterday was a relationship I’d never want to have. Two of my friends have been committed since more than 2yrs now. The Boy, G, and the girl, A. G is the guy who can fake being cool and goes crazy when he goes to such ‘cool’ places. He is weird. So damn weird! He acts like OMG where have we come. Man, stay true to yourself. Your behaviour and mannerism don’t need to change with the place you are in. So A was wearing a short dress and hence G had to give her special extra attention. A is a pretty looking girl and she is the best G can imagine of having with his weird nature. Come on man! I hate the people who can’t be themselves, actually, don’t want to be themselves! So the whole time G was trying to make sure his girl was escorted through all the entrances, got a full profile picture in her short dress, etc. That is all okay. But why forget who you are in this process? A listens only to english music. Great! Everybody has their own choice but why make other people feel down because of this? In the car we were playing punjabi songs! Then A said to change the song. Then we looked at her like why? So G came to her rescue by saying-” She meant play some actual songs” Dude, just because a song is in Punjabi doesn’t mean it’s not a song. Grow up you little freak. Grow up to accept that people can like stuff that is non english. How I hate such people!

Next thing, A saw an old school friend at the hip party. She was standing with G at that time. And this friend of hers, looked good. Haha. She forgot about G, went running to this new good looking guy and catching up. Girl, your current boyfriend is standing right beside you, at least introduce him. G came back and sat with us, waiting for his girlfriend to finish talking to the good looking stranger.

So in the end, I had realised what was actually going on in this relationship. G was with A only because she is a pretty material. Just because she is pretty and also from an army background whereas A is with G because he is what she can settle for in this college. If she can’t see the obvious about G, which is not being himself, then she must be not looking. Haha. Timepass. Relationships have been reduced to this now. 2yrs together and for what?

Don’t feel stupid if you don’t like what everybody else pretends to love.

Always be true to yourself. Don’t change for others and specially when what you like is not considered ‘cool’. Be a party animal or a bookworm! Doesn’t matter, but just be who you are. Like I realised that partying isn’t for me.