At my neighbor’s church youth service, during some after-service-cake-eating-activity (birthday party or something), a teen has been told by older teen to pick up a napkin, or something like that, that he dropped himself. After arguing for some time he finally picked it up, then told his parents how badly he has been treated… His parents told youth leaders they should never tell their kid what to do, and they will call cops if something like that happens again… Next week he came with a gun, to show off before his friends… about 5 years later, just a few months ago, he ended up in a prison for 10 years…