Are you a kind of person who has a lot of friends and is never alone? Well you are missing out a lot in life. Because believe me or not there will be times when you will be left alone and you’ll have no idea what to do with your life. However pessimistic this may sound but it’s actually the truth.
Being alone can be the best time of your life. You can either cry and blame the people who left you alone or thank them because this is the time when you can actually discover the person you really are. You are not the same person you were one year or may be even 6 months back but you wouldn’t realize that because you don’t have time to spend on yourself. Not knowing your own self is very dangerous because you would not be able to take the right decisions for yourself then.
At any point of time in life, if you are alone you can learn a lot more than when constantly surrounded by people. You are not reading this article or any of the articles here surrounded by your friends sitting in a pub right? You are reading this because you are alone and sure are learning a thing or two every day.
Remember the group studies in college? However fun and helpful those might be but you’ll never truly understand the subject unless and until you struggle on your own, reading 5 different articles to finally understand the answer of that 1 question. It is definitely a longer way to success but it sure is the most reliable one.
I myself hate being alone and when in life there were moments when I was all alone, I hated that feeling. I blamed and fought with the people who left me alone. But now I can’t thank them enough because they have made me stronger . Now even if they are not around for some reason, I know how to handle myself. I have gained that maturity only after living alone.
It’s very important not to be totally dependent on any one in your life even if he or she is the love of your life. There are moments in life which are not in our control and because of that you might have to stay apart from them for some time. If you don’t know how to live alone you will definitely mess up that beautiful relationship you had by thinking all wrong things about them because they left you alone.
Stop blaming others for the state you are in. You and only you have the power to make yourself happy or sad. I am in no way encouraging not to have friends or family around you but everyday take some time out for yourself. Enjoy your own company and discover the many hidden talents within yourself.