Sex is rarely mind blowing in the beginning. It takes time to discover bodies, build trust, learn what one likes and doesn’t like. There’s also different types of sexy. To have Skittles sex — taste the rainbow, it takes time and practice. Enter love and that takes sex to a whole new level. And love doesn’t happen in a few weeks. So if the sex isn’t the best you’ve ever had, that’s okay. That doesn’t mean it won’t be in the future.