Am I misogynist or just being human?!

Anurathi Veeraraghavan
Nov 3 · 3 min read

In the recent times, there has been many gynocentric movies which showcases different violence and injustice against women and how they are trying to overcome it and emerge successfully. That’s something to be appreciated! But isn’t it getting a little too cliched.

Naturally when we kind of consume too much of anything, we start to develop some hatred against it. Like for example, too much of food, overwhelming love, endless complaints and constant advices.

These constant focuses and highlights on women is just repeatedly mentioning that “we are the weaker ones”. You don’t need everyday campaigning to prove that you are strong. “ The real strong have no need to prove it to the phonies”, be it men or women.

There are many laws that are favourable to women. For example the law against sexual harassment, the numbers say, 4 in 10 cases reported are false allegations. Never ever use your “gender as a weapon to destroy someone”! Even the cases which needs limelight, loses it’s authenticity due to the overlapping of these false accusations.

Women receive chivalry therefore, free dinners, open doors, ladies night and more. Come on, a grown independent woman can pay for herself and also for you!

Growing with a brother or having a liberal father or having guy friends( which is btw less dramatic, more fun, more annoying including the pulling your leg stuffs too), might have made me think this way. I have been mistreated by a guy brutally and so by a girl too, who made me question my confidence and to feel miserable. Here the gender never mattered at all. In this competitive world, mostly women pull down their own being to come up. Where the hell is Lilly Singh’s “Girl love”.

We are two different sexes. We have our own differences physically. Basically men are stronger, and so as Tia-Clair Toomey, the crossfit champion. Women like to cook and so as the savage Gordon Ramsay.

I feel like feminism is taking the road to superiority rather than equality. We have our own uniqueness and polarities. So let us appreciate them and support each other for the better world.

The right perspective makes the impossible possible.

hey hey hey…but also guys, this could be me when I am PMSing.. Ha ha 😜

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