Appi Writings
Jul 22, 2017 · 2 min read

He told me he was drunk in love with me.

I believed him at the time.

But after a few months he changed.

He had become a different person.

I made him excuses, for whenever he wasn’t present when I needed him.

-he should be busy at work

-he should have low battery

-he should have plugged his phone and left it behind.

-he should be playing football

-he should be out drinking with a couple of friends.

Because in the beginning, that is what was true to me.

He gradually stopped eating my meals.

He was always so tired after coming home late.

He didn’t touch me like he used to.

He was different.

I asked myself, why? I couldn’t find answers.

Then, I asked him why?

He told me « bunny, I’m confused «

«What are you confused about ?» I asked him.

He answered «I’m divided between you and another woman. I don’t know which one to chose. I really don’t want to lose you. Please don’t be mad at me. I couldn’t help it. I’m sorry.»

I couldn’t believe it, did my msn actually tell me he was in love with another woman and myself?

I did not know if I had to be happy or sad.

Happy because I had a man who was able to tell me the truth about him being unfaithful. Or sad to have a man who is cheating on me anyway.

Most of us while in this situation chose to drop the guy and get a new guy.

It’s hard for me to say this but I think it’s very stupid. Do you want to know why?

«Every body cheats and everybody lies, but few are able to admit they did it»

I will rather be with a guy who admits he was wrong than one who always lies and finds excuses .

Guys, most of your women out there are not happy because you are lying to them .

The fact that we forgive you for your mistakes doesn’t mean we are stupid, or that we did not feel the pain .

We just chose to stick with you no matter what.

Most people follow «bad» people not because they are actually bad, but because they are real about it.

So yeah, just be real with your woman/man. He/she may not want you after that, but at least you were real with him/her. And that, my friend is something to respect .

    Appi Writings

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