Experience by talking to others :
From the activity of asking others about their life, family, their future goals, challenges they face and asking more about their exams I observe that the life of every individual is different some people are thinking optimistically about their future but some have negative thinking because they discouraged due to certain events and they lose hope i.e when my friend prepare for M-CAT but after giving M-CAT at the time of result his marks is less and she is not selected for medical studies due to this she thought negative. By this activity I also observe that when we talk to others some peoples are happy that we are interested in them but some people react in anger when I ask about some personal matters.By this activity I learned how to get a good, true, sincere and caring friendship. In future I would like to interact with different peoples having different natures so by this way I try to be interested in different peoples and also try to know about the nature of people.
Learned from reading:
After reading this chapter that you provide us as PDF I came to understand that how to win friends and make friends more in two months by becoming interested in other people than I can in two years by trying to get other people interested in me.If I merely try to impress people and get people interested in me , I will never have true or sincere friends because real friends are not made by that way.
As Napoleon said:
“ I have been as fortunate as any man ever was on this
earth; and yet, at this hour, you are the only person in the world on
whom I can rely.”
I have discovered from personal experience that one can win the attention, time and cooperation of even the most sought-after people by becoming by genuinely interested in them.If I want to make friends,let’s put myself out to do things for other people. Things that require time, energy, unselfishness and thoughtfulness.
Showing a genuine interest in others not only wins friend for me but may develop in customers a loyalty to a company or a company in which I work.
A show of interest, as with every other relations must be sincere. It must pay off not only for the person showing the interest, but for the person receiving the attention. It is a two way streets and both parties get benefits.
So, If I want others to like me, if I want to develop real friendship, if I want to help others at the same time as I help myself and keep this principle in my mind that
Become genuinely interested in other people.