Let me add this. I’ve read all of your responses and I think that I would strike up a chat with any of you. But I wouldn’t ask you out. If we stood and chatted at the same bus stop 10 days in a row and chatted, AND I had established that you were unattached (married or otherwise), I MIGHT ask you for coffee. And you could just say “No”…………..and that’s that…..nuff said.