Why Someone Stopped Paying Attention to You
Don’t be offended if someone stopped paying attention to you
Paying attention is a conscious act
Often, we can’t even pay attention to our own thoughts
Hence, why we get distracted easily
Don’t personalize this one
It’s a losing game in the low-attention age
Here’s an unfortunate truth in the social world
-Most humans are not paying attention to you
They are just pretending like they are
‘If they aren’t paying attention, then what are they doing?’
They are planning the next thing they are going to say…
Ask yourself how often YOU actually pay attention
Be honest
Are you normally paying attention?
Or do you pay attention & sporadically get lost in your thoughts?
When we stop paying attention to others, we make up some kind of excuse
We say its because they were talking too much
But when others stop paying attention to us, we get offended
We personalize