Why Someone Stopped Paying Attention to You

ArmaniTalks
2 min readJun 22, 2023

Don’t be offended if someone stopped paying attention to you

Paying attention is a conscious act

Often, we can’t even pay attention to our own thoughts

Hence, why we get distracted easily

Don’t personalize this one

It’s a losing game in the low-attention age

Here’s an unfortunate truth in the social world

-Most humans are not paying attention to you

They are just pretending like they are

‘If they aren’t paying attention, then what are they doing?’

They are planning the next thing they are going to say…

Ask yourself how often YOU actually pay attention

Be honest

Are you normally paying attention?

Or do you pay attention & sporadically get lost in your thoughts?

When we stop paying attention to others, we make up some kind of excuse

We say its because they were talking too much

But when others stop paying attention to us, we get offended

We personalize

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ArmaniTalks

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