City vs. Country

Thank God for the Internet. An old guy could get into some serious trouble out here!

I’m glad I can glean some gems to use out here in the country, where things are in no way even CLOSE to you folks in the city!

Ghosting, relationships with dommes, the seven ways to get a date…hell, if I didn’t know better, I’d think I live on a different planet.

Oh, some of the 7 ways made sense. There were actually a couple of things I could use out of there. The domme thing…not so much, but it did give me just a small peek into a world that I can never understand. Ghosting sounds like getting dumped, but maybe that’s just something nobody wants to admit to happening to them. I have no problem with saying I got dumped. Shit happens. We didn’t click…let’s move along.

Let’s see…what else have I seen out in the Medium sphere of influence? Nice guys finish last…well, no shit. We usually do, but occasionally, some gals see what most don’t. They call it a cliche because it happens so damn often that it’s basically truth.

I did see something that I could agree with, although I don’t like it. Women want a hot guy. They won’t date someone plain because…well, I didn’t catch the reason why. Maybe nice guys are a little boring. They aren’t out there making millions in the stock market (which has a whole different definition out here), they’re out making a living however they can. They come home after a tough day at work, hoping to get a little down time to relax and get ready for the grind the next day. They want to get a good meal, snuggle with their girl a little, and maybe do a little slap and tickle if his sweetie is game.

( I know the feminists are sharpening their knives in anticipation on neutering said writer…remember, ladies…I’m old fashioned. This is my thoughts. Don’t hate…)

Well, if this is the case, the above mentioned ladies won’t have to neuter me. I’ll never get a date because I’m a nice guy, and I am definitely NOT hot. So there…put the knives away.

But…I’ll continue to troll the waters anyway. Like I said, occasionally some girls see what most don’t. I’ll also try to “adapt” some of the stuff you city folks advise on here. Maybe I’ll become “enlightened” and some feminist might put up with me. Maybe I’ll look for a domme…nah, I don’t see that happening out here.

I see too much leather out here already…