I re-read your article and I still can’t find anything that could offend me as a web developer. I kinda don’t understand you mate — why are you trying to apologize people for saying the truth. I’m working in this business over 10 years and still I haven’t seen the polite version of truth — it just don’t exist.
There are different types of developers and many of them are currently lazy hipsters who treat their projects like a girl for one night — just do and forget. Not sure how the fuck it’s possible to treat such behavior with indulgence.
Once again, don’t be too hard on yourself mate — it’s not your fault that the world we work in is fucked up here and there.