This is true not only in love. It takes a great amount of bravery to face your own choices, fears and desires and become an individue. Because freedom also means responsibility, and we often don’t want to feel responsible for our own misfortune. Of course our environment offer us a limited pool to decided, but yet, we always have the a choice. Most of people let “the choice make itself”, with the ilusion that at least was not their fault…it was destiny. Well, the saddest part is that not making a choice still a choice.