From our two mom family to yours: amen. as the bio mom in our family, I can say unequivocally that my wife is the only person who could possibly be our son’s other parent, and if I didn’t believe in fate before his birth, I do now. and now that our son is 2 and says things like “my two mommies!” when we both go get him in the morning from his room, he reinforces this for us. some day he will ask questions, but I never wonder if he’s getting what he needs from us, male or female because he is the sweetest, happiest kid I’ve met. thanks for writing this.