BE Interested, Not Interesting
Now a days a trend has been seen of being interesting instead of be interested. wherever you are going to put your attention you will find all are talking about themselves. Even in long Friendship it has been seen that mostly people are talking about only themselves like, I did this, I will do this, and I am doing this to make our relation more powerful. Personally, when I used to think i find it more beautiful if someone may ask me “Yes it is just because of you, You are honorable in my life, or your efforts made me able to achieve my goal”. According to “Dale Carnegie” you can make more friends you can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. It is so simple and there is difference between Be Interested and Being Interesting you can make more friends by just let people and your friends know that you are interested in them and how much you are caring and loving for them.
A small example of being interesting is here: The New York Telephone Company made a detailed study of telephone conversations to find out which word is the most frequently used. You have guessed it: it is the personal pronoun “I.” “I.” I.” It was used 3,900 times in 500 telephone conversations.“I.” “I.” “I.” “I.” you can never have friends in this way and you can never get importance in this way.
I have practiced this activity of “Be Interested” and I am excited to see the results. It really worked. A lots of my friend with whom I was not in contact Get surprised and excited on my long term questions. they were laughing like, they were not expecting it but their answers were really satisfying. I hope this was a small effort to let them know that I am interested in them.
