Women in Hong Kong have been Commoditized

No more sitting, no more waiting, and no more wishing

Promise me: No more sitting, no more waiting, and no more wishing

On the apps or in the club too many guys will choose you based on what you look like instead of what’s inside, will enjoy you for a time, and then will PBO.

This is fine if you’re into casual dating but I know that many of you want a committed relationship and you’re frustrated because the guys you meet don’t reciprocate.

But the blame isn’t squarely on men’s shoulders. You are not doing yourself any favours by letting this happen. You’ve rescinded control and are letting your future be decided by chance.

This needs to stop because in Hong Kong the odds are stacked against you.

If you want to be single then be awesomely single! But if you do not want to be single…let’s do something about it!

You need to be the force in your life that decides what happens.

So promise me: No more sitting, no more waiting, and no more wishing.

I get it…we want an element of romance and serendipity in our love life. So when people ask, “How did you meet?” the answer is more cutesy than “I came, I saw, I conquered.”

But I want you to conquer. I want you to decide what your top priorities are and get a man who matches them.

Maybe it’s not rom-com style to create a plan and get strategic but it will get you that much closer to achieving your final goal: a partner who is worth it.

Don’t worry, we don’t have to tell the world you’ve taken a more systematic approach to your love life (though it’s nothing to be ashamed of) but it’s you who should be making the important decisions about your future.

Message me and let’s talk about what you want. Let’s make a plan and put you in control of your love life — right now.

xo Ariadna

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