John, put the kool-aid down. You’ve had enough.

It isn’t any tougher being whatever you are. Everyone has trials and tribulations. Everyone has to compete. The grass only seems greener on the other side. If you have so many privileges why are you even noticing? Real privilege means you don’t even realize. So you are not all that after all.

If you have zero privilege and several extra burdens look to others like yourself. They got where you want to be. John, it is up to you. No one cares about you except what you can do to help them.

John! You’re drinking all that kook-aid when you’re not even thirsty. Just put it down and start the work to change John.