For someone who was not originally born with the genitals that lead me to this treatment, to hijack the language I use is extremely infuriating and leaves me questioning whether they care whatsoever that they are damaging to my ability to speak for myself.
Even the transgender community generally acknowledge that one is born male or female.

You seem to be speaking quite well for yourself.

Also, if you think it’s your genitals that are why you’re oppressed, you really need to do a lot more reading on queer theory.