I absolutely agree. I’m white with a latino husband. And a whole host of people in my life that come from groups that don’t enjoy the privileges I might. I’m really not uncomfortable anywhere except at thanksgiving at my mothers house where I get to hear the racist bullshit. I actually prefer diversity in my life. And I also think, there is a certain loss of privilege that comes from being so closely tied to another human being that is a POC, at least in the sense of romantic and family ties. Because you know that person intimately and there pain becomes yours when you see people just assuming shit based on their skin.