Why Counting Your Sex Partner is Probably Important

Okay, can we all first agree to not being a judgemental human being when we read this article? Because, I’d be very honest with this one and maybe it would make me sound like a slutty human being.
I am a Slut, yes, no doubt about that. The first time I had sex is 4 years ago and my number is now still growing, higher and higher. I once had this idea where “Should I write all their name and keep it for me? Just for a reminder, you know if something bad happened (read: pregnant), I might still know how to contact them.” and so I did. I think this hobby was started in the second month of me having sex with random people.
That hobby now happens to be my new obsession. I just can’t stop looking at it, adding the number and their name and write something about them. It somehow becomes my reminder. A reminder of how unique people are and how fucked up their sexual behavior can be. Every guy is different, they have pros and cons, and trust me nobody’s perfect.
A friend ever asked me “So, who is the best one?”
And I silently thinking, “Oh that’s right, who?” “To be honest, I have no idea.”
I literally have no idea how to answer that. Everyone gives me a variety of pleasures and how come you put that into a solid score? I probably have a few guys that I occasionally fantasize and have a throwback thoughts about our fun time, but that’s it. In my opinion, it’s hard to come up with the “he’s the best” and I realize that it is actually okay to feel this way. Maybe this is the reason why I become this slutty human being who always seeks different pleasure from a different guy ( — or girl) in a different situation. Because as a human, I believe that we’re dynamic, we’re fluid. One day we like A, the next day we like B. We are always changing and that’s what makes us beautiful.
Also, counting the people you’ve slept with is fun and it helps you to keep track of your sex life. There are times where when I look back at it I feel disgusted by myself, looking at the name who treated me like shit and feels awful. It’s like you’d wish to go back and smack his face instead of giving your vagina to him. But then, the past is in the past and the past is there to give you a lesson. So I just laugh at myself.
Was I too young and dumb? Absolutely. Will I repeat the same mistake? Absolutely not. Now as I’m getting older, those numbers become my life lesson, to make sure not going to make the same mistake and to make sure I’m happier with my sex life right now as I am now more experienced with numerous guys. And maybe it’s also the time for you to do the same.