Misinterpretation Of Love And Affection
Sometimes, over caring and affection can be a problem for an individual because, under such a situation, an individual often appears vulnerable and fragile as a result it later strikes an individual’s self-respect.
Affection & love is the purest emotion which nowadays rarely few people have because people now construe physical attraction as an epitome of love, consequently after sometimes this temporary attachment gets declined between the people and the reason is simply that they do not have pure love.
They just have needs in some form or the other. Besides this, it has been seen that it is not easy to find out the right person with whom one can have better compatibility, there always remains a certain difference between the people and these differences later become the major impediment or source of a feud between them.
Nowadays, the definition of love and affection has been confined to a limited extent owing to which this purest emotion has been downgraded over the years by the people. When you have affection for someone then it means you have dedicated yourself for that person however it matters that one wants to have that affection just for the sake of enjoyment or want to last that affection forever in the form of marriage?
One negative development can also be witnessed that love has now become a fancy word for the people, here it seems that love and other such things are not made for the people who are very serious towards their life because such people often tend to evaluate things deeply, they keenly observe gesture, they never believe in wasting their time because they know that their time is for achieving things. It is noteworthy if such people get a good person who also has the same disposition as them then it will act as an icing on the cake. Someone has said, “Two people together can build anything in their life” but, it is the rarest sight to see in today’s artifice world. Here one thing comes that nowadays the youngsters fall in love with someone by just seeing the superficial and outer things than the true emotions of the person.
I would like to present certain suggestions to the young people from my experiences so that they should not distract from their path:
- Never make something your habit, which means do not engross yourselves in something to such extent that later you are confronting problems on account of the same things.
- Never beg or plead before someone, because true people will understand your emotions and feelings without words only.
- Never misinterpret your needs and physical attraction into love and affection, which means always have introspection before taking part.
- Never love someone for a temporary time, rather make your relation to last longer in the form of marriage.
- Whatever is the situation, always give respect to your partner.
- If things are not working, then do not worry, have a discussion with your partner and go ahead.
- If your relationship becomes a source of problems for you, then remember it can never survive.
- Most importantly, never forget the love of your parents because if you are doing so then even God will not forgive you.
- Everything is associated with your success whether fame, money and so on, better to utilize your time than wasting on non-sensical things.
- Never lose your self-respect due to certain negative things.
