Last Resort to Save A Relationship
No relationship is perfect because no human being is perfect. That’s because we have complex minds and confusing emotions. The human mind and emotion are like a gift and a curse, depending on how we learn to utilize them.
Problems will continue to arise even when we start a new relationship with someone. Our shortcomings don’t disappear and will follow us if we don’t raise awareness to fix our beliefs. We can keep uncovering all the emotional pain holding us back and talk about everything we want to change in the future. Still, we need to find a relatable matter between the relationship for change to happen.
The last resort to improving a relationship is to find a common goal that both of you can work towards starting in the presence. This end goal must be the main focus, allowing both partners to see eye to eye going forward and building a connection. On the other hand, avoid bringing up past issues or future plans during this period. The initial understanding of each other at the moment will start to give hope for your relationship with that person. Ultimately, our minds will synchronize together to begin understanding each other. The rest will come together if our honesty and commitment follow through.
Lastly, remember everything and everyone is uncertain in this world. There’s no guarantee to life, and there’s no return policy for our regrets. Every relationship we chose to remain in our life will always have room for improvement. No relationship will ever be perfect because we’re humans in imperfectly “perfect” relationships. But sharing the one goal that will better the both of you is a good start that’s worth a try.