*Title: Sawda bint Zamʿa: A Beacon of Love and Devotion*

_A story to tell Muslim brothers and sisters who are looking up to marriage ❤️😊_

*By:Abu Qaanit*

The dream of every Muslim brothers and sisters is to end up in almost perfect if not perfect marriage, to get married to their soul mate and someone they can tell others about, this is my zawj and this is my zawjah (moosha ALlaah 🧕👳) and this dream varies in terms of choices and influence..
Many make choices base on influence and many are influenced base on environment and experience. But these two terms to be considered when going for a life time relationship is neither a reason or priority surrounding the marriage between Sawda Bint Zam'a and The Noble prophet Muhammad (S.A.W).
I'll tell further about her and her marriage with the prophet, I hope we learn and make decisions from there, because I believe, as an observing Muslim and muslimah working towards an ideal home, must look up to the details of the Quran and stories of the prophet.

*Who is Sawda Bint Zam'a 🧕😊 and what's her story all about?*

After the marriage, Sawda played a significant role in the life of the Prophet Muhammad. She offered companionship, emotional support, and care, not only to the Prophet but also to his other wives and the wider Muslim community. Her warm and welcoming nature made her beloved among the people, who sought her advice and guidance.
Sawda bint Zamʿa's remarkable story illuminates the path to building a perfect and Islamic family home. Her unwavering faith, selfless love, and remarkable sacrifices provide inspiration to Muslims, sisters, and brothers alike, who aspire to create harmonious households rooted in Islamic values. Sawda's life teaches us that a strong foundation of faith, love, and devotion is the key to establishing a home filled with peace, compassion, and righteousness. By following in Sawda's footsteps, we can create families that embody the essence of Islamic teachings and contribute to a prosperous and harmonious society.

After saying this, let's get to know the historical background of this beautiful, hardworking and generous wife of the prophet

Sawda bint Zam'a belonged to the Quraysh tribe, one of the noblest tribes in Mecca at that time. She was previously married to a man named Sakran ibn 'Amr, and they had children together. However, her husband passed away, leaving her widowed and with the responsibility of raising their children.
During the early years of Islam, the Prophet Muhammad faced immense persecution in Mecca due to his message of monotheism and his call to abandon idol worship. In the face of mounting opposition, the Prophet received a divine command to seek support and alliances through marriage. This led him to propose to several women, including Sawda.
Sawda bint Zam'a, known for her kind and compassionate nature, accepted the Prophet's proposal, recognizing the importance of supporting him in his mission. She became his wife during the later part of his stay in Mecca, when the opposition against Islam was at its peak. Her marriage to the Prophet provided her with protection and support while enabling her to actively participate in spreading the message of Islam

It is recorded that few individuals shine as brightly as Sawda bint Zamʿa, the esteemed wife of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Her unwavering faith, unconditional love, and remarkable dedication to her family make her a timeless role model for Muslims, both sisters, and brothers, who strive to build a perfect and Islamic family home. This narrative celebrates Sawda's remarkable journey and aims to inspire and motivate all those on the path to creating a harmonious and righteous household, and an eye opener to those who are still finding it indecisive,get to know time has been far spent on you.

Her Marriage to the prophet
Sawda's union with the Prophet Muhammad was not only a sacred bond but a testament to her exceptional character. Despite facing personal challenges, Sawda never wavered in her devotion to her husband. Through her unwavering support, she became a pillar of strength, providing solace, love, and companionship to the Prophet during the most difficult times.
There was an emphasis on character which covers most challenges in marital life, imagine an Islamic home built with Islamic faith and knowledge without character, it's never going to be an ideal home, It will always rumble.

The Perfect Partner
Sawda bint Zamʿa personified the qualities of an ideal spouse. Her humility, patience, and empathy created an atmosphere of tranquility within her home. She nurtured an environment that fostered love, respect, and unity among her family members. Sawda's exceptional ability to balance her responsibilities as a wife, a mother, and a member of the community is a testament to her commitment to building an Islamic family home, can you build yourself up to that?

In the story of Sawda Bint Zam'a, there is lessons and importance in Love and Sacrifice which muslimah should take into consideration.

Sawda's life exemplified the power of love and sacrifice. When the Prophet Muhammad married Aisha, Sawda, out of her immense love for him, selflessly offered to give up her own marriage rights, allowing the Prophet to marry another wife. Her profound sacrifice demonstrated the depth of her love and her unwavering commitment to the greater good of the Muslim community. Of course, building a home with love is the utmost of having an ideal Muslim home. Allah emphasize on the concept of love and the reason why the two gender should built it as it was the essence of their creation, love, yes love, without it the world is nothing but chaos not to talk of a family, Islamic home to be precise!.

Sawda's Legacy
Sawda bint Zamʿa's legacy extends far beyond her lifetime. Her contributions to the early Islamic community and her steadfast commitment to upholding the principles of Islam left an indelible mark on history. Her dedication to nurturing a loving and righteous family home serves as a timeless example for Muslims today.

Wait!, An incident happened between sawda bint Zama'a and the Prophet 🥲🤔

Sawda bint Zama'a is considered to be the second wife. She married the Prophet after the death of his first wife, Khadijah bint Khuwaylid, and before his marriage to Aisha bint Abu Bakr.
One notable incident involving Sawda is when the Prophet Muhammad received a revelation allowing him to marry more than four wives, which was normally restricted in Islam. Feeling the burden of taking care of multiple households and recognizing the importance of unity and support among his wives, the Prophet offered Sawda the option to end their marriage while maintaining her financial security and rights. However, Sawda, out of her deep love and devotion to the Prophet, selflessly chose to remain his wife and relinquished some of her conjugal rights so that he could spend more time with his other wives.

As the years passed, the Prophet Muhammad and his wives faced various trials and challenges together, including the migration to Medina and the establishment of the Muslim community there. Sawda played an essential role during this period, supporting the Prophet and engaging in acts of charity and kindness to alleviate the suffering of others.

Sawda bint Zam'a remained married to the Prophet until his passing in 632 CE. After his death, she continued to serve the Muslim community and provide guidance to other women. She passed away during the caliphate of Umar ibn al-Khattab, one of the Prophet's closest companions.

To live the best life, look into the marital life of the prophet, compare and strive to build it's replicate. I pray and look forward to an almost perfect home, do you? 👳🧕😊