penny i’m sorry for your experience, but did you call around to find out about this guy? you’re both korean-american, and it’s a small community. i don’t know this joker but a quick glance at my linkedin profile shows that i have a 2nd degree connection with him. and even if i didn’t, i’d sure as hell know someone to call based on where he went to school and where he worked. anyway next time….hit me up. i know a guy.