while I completely agree on the bullet points and your do’s and dont’s list I absolute don’t agree with your “as man you are a part of rape culture” statement. It’s exactly the same as telling Muslims they’d be part of islamic terror culture and then you might also add a “and that’s the reason why I show how to behave to make a difference”? Sorry, but that’s just fascist.
I’d say our main problem goes much further: We have a crime culture and humanity is part of it — unfortunately.
Still — I see your point which is absolutely valid and I agree the world would be a better place if everyone behaves as you suggested it. But I hate plain generalization — there is much more grey between the black and white behaviour patterns you described.