Have you ever asked yourself why the relationship between men and women come to an end?
There is no secret that I love women! It’s my nature! I love some women because they have beautiful personality. So I’ve always wanted to understand them as humanly as possible!
Recently, I embarked on a journey to understand why a relationship collapses and find solution for it — so we can avoid the mistakes of those before us and make our relationships work better! In our time, the community does not exist. People are too shy to interact with others in public places unless they are having a few drinks and attending events and meetings.
That didn’t stop me. So, I hit the road to talk to thousands of women in the streets and online. The women I spoke to told me that their former men were responsible for the break up. There’s one worry in that claim. We know that one person can make the relationship work and it takes two people to end it.
It is clear to me that the main cause of the break up is: honest communication! Men and women are no longer communicate with each other, they entertain each other. They do not take the time to get to know each other, they visit the cinema and restaurant! They do not exchange ideas, they exchange images. They do not discuss about the importance of life; they discuss about good looks, celebrities and popular ideas. They do not trust each other, they use each other. They don’t tell the truth to each other, they amuse each other. They prefer appearance to reality! They worship money and fame, they do not value character.
Important life lesson: If you worship money and materials — if these things determine the purpose of your life — then you will never have enough. Worship your own body and beauty and you will always feel ugly.You worship power — you will aways feel weak and afraid, and you will need more power over other people. The lesson is to keep the truth in front of you in your daily life and do what is human.
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